What did you do before you came to work in the Parish?
I studied music at Cardiff University.
What were you most looking forward to?
I wanted the opportunity to work alongside others discerning their vocation – and particularly to work alongside people with different theological slants to my own. I was looking forward to being part of a team that, I knew from others, worked very hard to be the church in its community and was very committed to what it did.
Were you nervous?
Not especially because I had spent a year in a different church in London before coming here. I was excited, but the first time I was very nervous. Having had that prior experience helped me to relax but in any case I was made to feel at ease here very quickly.
How is the placement shaping up?
I am comfortable with what I do, my job and responsibilities. I feel very warmly welcomed and was made to feel very much part of the community very quickly. I am supported by the team and members of the congregation and feel generally very secure besides all the otherwise terrifying and insecure elements of the job!
What’s it like where you live?
The house is fantastic. We have our own rooms and share a large living room and garden (with family of foxes!). I live with two other PAs and a House Co-ordinator. We get on ridiculously well and are very good friends. Living communally is not without difficulty but on the whole we get on ridiculously well and have become very good friends. In theory (!) we have film night every Wednesday, the house is in a quiet residential area, our privacy is respected and it is very good to go back to.
Have you taken any services?
I lead Healing Prayer occasionally, effectively a lay ministry service of scripture, prayer and laying on of hands. I preached my first Sunday sermon on Advent 4 and am on the rota for leading morning and evening office.
What about outside church?
On Monday I work at Women @ the Well, an organisation supporting vulnerable women, on Wednesday I work in our church primary school in class and run an after school club. On Friday I form part of the chaplaincy team at the Huntley Centre and I also do pastoral visits as directed by my incumbent.
How have you found being a female Pastoral Assistant in an Anglo-Catholic parish?
I have found being a PA in this Parish incredibly fulfilling, particularly as a woman coming from a traditional Catholic background. I have never once felt that I was not respected or that my vocation was not important or genuine. The team, and particularly my incumbent have been extremely supportive in every way they can. Of course we experience all the knocks and bumps that any close working relationship with a team will bring but the benefits are huge.
Finally, how are you feeling about your vocation?
I can say that since coming here I am more at peace with my sense of vocation than at any other point.